Resources

What to expect in your first session

A plain walk-through of how intake works, what we’ll talk about, and what you don’t need to prepare in advance.

Understanding attachment styles

A short, accessible explainer on the four attachment patterns — how they form, how they show up in relationships, family, and with yourself, and why naming one isn’t a diagnosis.

Self-pay & superbills, explained

What a superbill is, how to submit one to your insurer for possible out-of-network reimbursement, and what to ask your insurance company before your first session.

Recommended reading

  • Hold Me Tight — Sue Johnson
  • Waking the Tiger — Peter Levine
  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work — John Gottman
  • Polysecure — Jessica Fern (for non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships)

A short grounding practice

A free, downloadable two-minute breathing and settling exercise — the same kind of practice many sessions open with.